Carolina Perez Sanz
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#385 – Who are you: true to yourself or stuck in the past?
“This is who I am”/”this is not who I am” sound like powerful, poetic statements. But…
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#384 – What keeps you tolerating low pay?
Whatever your reasons, it all comes down to one: fear. Are you listing every more than…
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#383 – How does the need to prove keep you stuck?
Let’s say you’re right in a specific thing, and someone says you’re wrong. What do you…
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#382 – How is your time management robbing you of your earning potential?
And no, you don’t need to work more in order to make more money. What you…
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#381 – Who appointed you keeper of right and wrong?
Growing up, you learned to distinguish between two fundamental sets of things: what got you love…
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#380 – What do you mean when you complain, “it’s not fair?”
When life gives you lemons, let’s be honest, you feel mistreated. At least I do––why me?…
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#379 – How does universal empathy improve your health?
When you’re going through a tough time, someone’s empathy can make a big difference in your…
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#378 – What pushes you to ration your empathy?
Some people believe that empathy can be toxic: that showing it to one person takes it…
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#377 – What will stop you from quitting?
We often trace a cause-effect relationship where there is none. The erroneous conclusions we then draw…
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#376 – What do you gain when you meet everything with thanks?
“Be grateful for whatever comes, because each has been sent as a guide from beyond.” Rumi.…
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#375 – What can happen when you don’t set limits to your empathy?
You may have heard it too: “I suffer too much, I’m an empath.” Well, I have…
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#374 – What are some signs that you don’t feel worthy?
I used to look down on people who make excuses for not following through––where “people” includes…
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#373 – What are you *really* worrying about?
Sometimes, when we’re dissatisfied with life, we pin it on whatever’s handy. Like, “yeah, I’m upset…
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#372 – How will obsessing about things block your path to freedom?
Obsessing over things (no matter how important or trivial), demanding control and perfection is your mind’s…
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#371 – What changes when you believe nothing’s wrong with life?
A big source of unhappiness for humans is disappointment. When life doesn’t meet our expectations, we…
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#370 – Who will you be when you truly forgive?
When you’ve been hurt, not forgiving the person who hurt you is like vying to remain…
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#369 – What do you hope your “excellent” unsolicited feedback will do?
Moral superiority is an Ego-driven disease. Once in your system, it turns you into a judging…
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#368 – What will you gain when you quit catastrophizing?
Catastrophizing leads to paralysis––your Ego’s preferred state for you. Quitting is as liberating as breaking any…
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#367 – How will friction improve your life?
In a world of “seamless,” introducing friction may seem counterproductive. True: things might get clunkier and…
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#366 – How do you know when fairness becomes righteousness?
Sometimes, sticking to your principles feels necessary. Other times, it’s just your Ego pushing your nose…
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#365 – What challenge taught you the most?
We tend to wish life were a walk in the park. Yet if it were, what…
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#364 – How will you improve the world by practicing nonviolence?
Joy Division was wrong: it’s not love that will tear us apart––it’s hate. In a recent…
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#363 – What makes ‘set it and forget it’ your most effective strategy?
Even though you can never guarantee an outcome, setting your course allows you to ensure you’re…
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#362 – What did your Ego get wrong about “right” and “wrong?”
Your Ego thinks in absolute terms. You know it’s It talking when you hear “always” and…
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#361 – What do you expect from yourself, deep down?
When life gives you lemons, do you ask yourself, “where did I go wrong?” Even though…
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#360 – How does anger at the world improve your life?
The world is the world and does its thing, which has nothing to do with you.…
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#359 – What race did your Ego sign you up for?
No matter how much you refuse to enter that race, your Ego’s push for you to…
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#358 – Why meditate?
Is your brain your most valuable asset? Then, you need to keep it “well-oiled” and reliable.…
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#357 – What wants you to keep your blinders on?
When you don’t see, you can still pretend there’s nothing wrong, that you’re doing great in…