You may think that, ensuring a decision is right requires endless pondering and complicated pros-and-cons analysis. That’s only because you equate “right decision” with “decision that leads to the desired outcome.”
But, you might have noticed, things tend to happen regardless of what you decide. For example, that time I couldn’t get from Mexico City to São Paulo, my decision had been right––to catch that plane. What I didn’t know was that the airline had overbooked the flight and they’d give my seat to someone else.
In other words, your only job is to make the decision. The outcome is someone or something else’s responsibility––typically, the universe’s.
The feeling of “resonance” helps you decide. In fact, it ensures all your decisions are right.
You feel resonance when you’re in complete alignment with who you really are. When you:
- Are doing what you most enjoy
- Don’t feel any guilt, fear, remorse, jealousy or any other negative emotion about yourself, the circumstances, or others
- Feel fully like yourself, not needing to put on a mask to please others
- Feel free
When a decision is “right,” your whole body says ‘yes!’
The problem is that, seconds after deciding, your Ego will come and chew your ear about what could go wrong and why you should think more about it before committing––because what if?
Sure: the Ego is the one that equates deciding with getting the desired outcome.
Whenever you feel resonance, you’re in complete alignment with your True Self. While you’re feeling it, you’re deciding 100% from your inner being, your most authentic, true self.
And that’s the part of you that’s best equipped to assess what decision is right.
What decision will you stop analyzing and start feeling?
Love,
Carolina
Carolina Perez Sanz 